Have you ever had a glitch in your computer and lost information? The screen comes up that says “Are you sure you want to continue? Any unsaved changes will be lost.”
A couple of people I’ve met with lately are overcoming pain caused by trusted relationships. In one of them the pain was caused recently, the other was years ago. Regardless, overcoming offense in an unholy way can lead to a loss of information. A hole that seems to be “leading” you in a different direction.